(James 4:1-12; listening time: 26:09http://lockwoodchurch.org/media)

For some family members, church members, and co-workers, spats and verbal conflicts are a part of life. When things get so bad they can’t take it anymore, they leave – the family, the church, the job. Sometimes they become part of another family, another church, or another workplace, only to see the same pattern emerge all over again. And they don’t know why. In this message, we explore what can be done to change conflict in our lives and, even more importantly, what can be done to change us.