I was driving on a primary north-south route before dawn. A half-mile away I could see a car coming toward me with his bright lights on. When he went down a hill and disappeared from sight, I turned my bright lights on hoping that, when we got closer, he would see me turn mine off and would get the message to turn his off, too.
As
we approached each other, I turned off my brights, but the other driver didn’t
get the message. So I flashed my lights at him. He still didn’t turn off his
bright lights. I didn’t know if he was being stubborn or if he just didn’t
notice.
I
frequently drive the country roads after dark or before dawn and I have notice
that approaching drivers frequently forget to switch off their brights. I flash
my lights at them as a reminder, but some – maybe a third – still don’t turn
theirs off. Are they being stubborn? I doubt it. I think they simply don’t
notice.
But
how can you not notice a car approaching you at fifty-five miles per hour,
flashing its lights? What could the other driver possibly be doing? Is he
talking on his cell phone, or changing CDs or adjusting the heat? Is he dozing?
Or is he just lost in his own thoughts? (It is a little disquieting to think
that three out of ten drivers are so distracted that they do not notice when
someone flashes lights at them.)
When
it comes to driving a vehicle, paying attention could mean the difference
between a safe arrival and an accident. When it comes to one’s spiritual
journey, the same holds true. I think many of us crash in our spiritual journey
simply because we are not paying attention. God is flashing his lights at us,
so to speak, but we don’t notice.
As
there are rules in driving, so there are rules in the spiritual life. As there
are skills in driving, there are skills in the life of faith. But knowing the
rules or mastering the skills is not enough to guarantee success, whether one
is on the road or following the spiritual path. We must also pay attention.
As
a pastor, I have met people who know all the rules. They can quote them at
length. Ask them a question – for example, “What does the Bible say about forgiveness?”
– and they will give you three rules, all with biblical support.
Other
people have the skills down pat. They read the Bible every day and understand
what they read. They pray. They meet with others weekly to worship. They know
how to use the Bible as a map to lead someone to faith in Christ.
Some
people know the rules and have developed the skills, but miss a satisfying life
with God, nonetheless. Why? Because they aren’t paying attention to him. They
are lost in their own thoughts, pursuing their own agendas, or playing with
their newest toys. And, because they are not paying attention, they keep having
“accidents.” Their words damage others, they miss God’s will, and they drive
their life through various barricades, right into temptation.
What
is the difference between the person who pays attention and the one who does not?
One decides that paying attention is important, intends to do so, then acts on
his intention. The other does not. Most people who don’t pay attention to God
never intended to. They think of this life as their own, and God as an option
to which they can attend or not.
Paying
attention – to the road or to God – is a habit and, like any habit, can be
formed. We can get into the habit of paying attention to God by devoting time
daily to listen to what God has to say, especially through the Bible. We can talk
– and listen – to God at specified times during the day. We can adopt a posture
like this: “Lord, I am listening. Speak to me today through the Bible, through
other Christians, and even through chance meetings. Speak to me through what I
read and the circumstances around me.”
The difference between failure and success is sometimes a simple matter of paying attention.
First published by Gatehouse Media