(Excerpt) And this is a message for all us children whose parents did it wrong—and whose didn’t? I realize that, in some cases, parents did it horribly wrong. The parents who were given you to protect you, have harmed some of you terribly. It may be that you need to go to them and tell them how they’ve hurt you. It may be that you need to stay away from them and receive God’s grace to love them from a distance. It may be that the distance is so great that you cannot go to them. (They may have already died.) However that may be, go to them or not, you need to go to God. While every other father fails, he does not. He will be with you to love you, help you, heal you, and change you. You need God.