What Does God Think of You?

Posted on August 31, 2021 by salooper57

Louie Zamperini was a Lieutenant in the Army Air Corps in the Second World War, serving as a bombardier when his plane was badly damaged by Japanese anti-aircraft fire. The plane made it back to base but was no longer flight-worthy, so Louie was assigned to another plane and another mission: to search for a lost aircraft and her crew. During the search, the plane developed mechanical difficulties and crashed into the Pacific Ocean, 800 miles from Hawaii, killing 8 men of the 11-member crew.

Louie and two others survived the crash. They spent 47 days at sea, living off collected rainwater and whatever fish or birds they could catch. They fought off sharks and were strafed by Japanese planes and one of the three friends died. When they finally reached land, they were immediately captured by the Japanese and transferred to a prison camp. Later they were sent to another camp, where they were brutally, sadistically tortured.

The Army assumed Lieutenant Zamperini died with the rest of the crew and listed him as KIA. President Roosevelt sent his parents a letter of condolence. Can you imagine how his family felt when they learned he was alive, when he returned home, and they saw him again?

Being lost at sea was not the first time Louie was lost. When he was a teen he was constantly getting into fights and stealing and drinking. One day after a fight with his parents, he told them he was leaving. His parents pleaded with him to stay, but he refused. So his tearful mother made him a sandwich to take with him and his dad gave him $2 which, in the Depression, may have been all the money he had.

Louie hopped a freight train but nearly died in a boxcar after he got locked inside in sweltering heat. When he was discovered, he was run off at gunpoint. With nowhere to go, he sat around the rail yard, dirty, bruised, and wet. There was nothing to eat except a can of beans he’d stolen. While he sat there in misery, a passenger train went by and Louie could see people sitting at tables with tablecloths and crystal stemware, eating and laughing. In that moment, he remembered the sandwich his mother gave him and the money his dad handed him, and he stood up and headed home.[1] He’d experienced repentance.

That is a modern (and true-life) retelling of Jesus’s Parable of the Prodigal Son – or better, The Parable of the Lost Sons, since both sons in the story are lost or, better yet, the Parable of the Loving Father. It is the crown of Jesus’s 37 parables and it powerfully portrays what the God and Father of Jesus is really like.

When Jesus told this masterpiece of a story, he was speaking to people who lived in a society where everyone was assigned a status. Who is you dad? Where do you work? What school did you go to? What is your annual income? What are your assets? How many languages do you speak? What are your religious credentials? Based on these particulars, we are assigning you to the fourth level, E-flight, 64th position. That is who you are.

Of course, people who were assigned to D-flight looked down on those in E-Flight but were looked down upon by people in C-Flight who, in turn, were looked down upon by people in B-Flight, and so on. In fact, looking down on people, especially those who didn’t measure up on the religion scale, was practically a matter of duty. And, since we assume God is like us, it was taken for granted God did the same thing.

Then came Jesus. He not only didn’t look down on people at the lower end of the scale, he got rid of the scale – threw it out. In a society where even little children could distinguish between the reputable and the disreputable, Jesus’s disregard for those distinctions was scandalous. He took people in, while other religious leaders shut them out—and thought they were doing right thing. What accounts for the difference?

The reason Jesus and the religious leaders treated people differently is that they believed radically different things about God. Beliefs have consequences! The Pharisees believed God did not want these people; that he didn’t like them. They thought God considered them to be a kind of infection and so they treated them that way. Jesus believed that God did want these people, that he loved them and considered them to be a kind of treasure. And so he treated them that way.

[1] Adapted from Laura Hillenbrand, Unbroken (Random House, 2010), pp. 11-15.

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Are We There Yet?

Posted on August 29, 2021 by salooper57
Listening time approximate 27 minutes.
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God, People, and Schrödinger’s Cat: Our Role in it All

Posted on August 28, 2021 by salooper57
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A friend recently said to me something like this: “If this is all there is [to a recent set of events], then it was all for nothing.” She went on to say that nothing good came of it. When it was going on, it had seemed so meaningful – that is, she felt it had been divinely intentioned – but in retrospect that was not the case.

This is a sentiment I have run across repeatedly. As far as I know, atheists do not experience it. It is theists, especially Christians with a robust belief in an engaged and sovereign God, who endure this theological dysphoria.

Because of the way things transpired, my friend had concluded that God was involved in the timing and engineering of certain events. That belief gave rise to a set of expectations. If God really meant this to happen, as it seemed he did, then certain results could be expected to ensue.

When the expected results did not occur, my friend was disappointed and confused. She was not only disappointed with the apparent lack of results, but she was also confused about God. If she had been wrong about God’s involvement in this case, when she had been so sure, how could she ever trust herself to recognize God’s activity in the world?

Some people see God at work in everything. The fact that they missed that pothole as they drove into work is to them clear evidence of divine intervention. If they catch cold, God gave them the cold. If they find a dollar bill in the sofa, God arranged for that to happen.

My friend doesn’t want to be one of those people. She does not want to be deceived. She believes in God, but she doesn’t want a make-believe God.

I think my friend is mistaken on at least two counts. First, she is mistaken in her belief that certain results would occur if God was involved and that if they did not occur, God must not be involved. This is to presume to know more that humans can know.

With rhetorical flourish, St. Paul joins prophets and apostles in dispelling the idea that any of us is capable of comprehending God: “Oh, the depth of the riches of the wisdom and knowledge of God! How unsearchable his judgments, and his paths beyond tracing out! Who has known the mind of the Lord? Or who has been his counselor?”

Neither my friend nor I can know what good things may result from the events that transpired. Perhaps this article will encourage some reader neither of us has ever met to trust God in hardship. Perhaps the compassion my friend gains from her experience will one day encourage and support people not yet born.

We cannot know what things will result, but we can trust that they will be good. According to St. Paul, “all things work together for good for those who love God.” This does not mean that all things are good, but that God is so skilled that he can make even bad things achieve good ends for the people in his family.

The second count on which I believe my friend to be mistaken is her idea that the outcome of the events she experienced is now complete. This view assumes that God either foreordains a specific outcome or, like the Supreme Court, refuses to take up the case. Either way, the individuals involved are superfluous. But this, I think, is to misunderstand how God works. He frequently allows his creatures to interact in events in a way that makes them meaningful or meaningless, good or bad – even after the fact.

Physicists speak of a quantum system remaining in a “superposition” of states and its outcome indeterminate until an interaction occurs with an observer. God designed reality so that something like this happens. Some events remain indeterminate even after they happen, neither good nor bad, until we interact with them.

If we interact with them while trusting God, the outcome will bring good to us, as the apostle claimed. Either way, God dignifies humans with a (limited) role in bringing reality – it’s final state – into being, for good our bad.

(First published by Gannet.)

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Asking Questions of John 3: What Does Jesus Mean by “Be Born Again?”

Posted on August 27, 2021 by salooper57

What on earth does Jesus mean when he talks about being born again? The answer to that question needs to be clearly grasped, and so merits study and careful thought. For now, let me say this: to be born again is to experience a radical change in the source from which your life flows.

Imagine a creek that flows through the hilly country of northern Kentucky into a small lake. Now without changing the creek bed at all – it still occupies the same place – the corps of engineers digs a channel from the Ohio River that connects to the creek. It is still the same creek, but a new energy flows through it. At first it overflows its banks, but its banks eventually widen and its bed deepens, as the water coursing through it gives it a new shape.

That’s the kind of thing that happens when a person is born again. He or she is still the same person, but a new life – a new kind of life – is now present in his or her innermost being. At first, a person hardly knows what to do with that new life; it overflows them. But then they deepen, they change, they become bigger, if you will, and carve out a lifestyle better suited to the new life that’s in them. Or another way of putting it is: They are transformed in Christlikeness.

You see, people need new life – a qualitatively different kind of life – in order even to see the kingdom of God; to be able to envision what living in the presence and power of God is like. They need that life, which comes from outside themselves and changes them, in order to trust God and live freely in his good kingdom.

We have to ask, then, what has to happen for a person to be born again and receive this foreign life into themselves? The answer to that crucial question comes a little later in the text, so we are going to come back to that in just a couple of moments.

So the question for the text is: “What does Jesus mean when he talks about being born again?” The question for our lives is, “Have we been born again? Have we received that outside life into innermost being? And how would we know if we had? One way we know is that we have seen the kingdom of God, or at least we’ve seen its shadow. It is in our vision. We desire to live in it, under God’s rule and under his protection. We long to know God, to be his true son or daughter. That happens to people who’ve experienced this new birth.

To Nicodemus, none of this made any sense. It frustrated him. So here’s another question to bring to the text: Why didn’t Jesus’s thoughtful teaching make sense to Nicodemus? And I think the answer must be that Nick had no place to file Jesus’s words. What Jesus was saying didn’t fit into his file drawer; into what Nicodemus thought he knew – and thought he knew beyond a doubt.

You see, Nick already knew (or thought he knew) what a person – or better yet, a nation – had to do to see the kingdom of God: they had to keep the rules; live by the Law; be zealous for the Torah. Nicodemus – and the people who had taught him, and the people who taught them, were certain that the way into God’s good graces was through a careful, zealous, persistent observance of the religious law. He believed that if people would repent and obey that law, God would take notice and would respond by sending his Messiah to inaugurate his kingdom. The idea that a different kind of life was needed to see and enter the kingdom had never occurred to him – that’s not what he had been taught! He had the Law of Moses – that was all anyone needed. Why even talk about a different kind of life?

What Nick didn’t realize was that he needed a different kind of life even to understand the Law, much less to follow the Law to where it had always led: to a wholehearted, whole-person love for God and neighbor.

So the question for the text was: “Why couldn’t Nicodemus understand what Jesus was saying?” And the answer is: His view of God prevented it. His misconceptions about the kind of person God is and the kind of person he wants us to be led him led him into misguided commitments. Nick was committed to controlling his situation and managing his sin, rather than trust his Savior.

The question for our lives is this – and it is a hard one: Am I able to hear what Jesus is saying, or are mistaken beliefs and misguided commitments getting in my way? That is something we will never know without help – God’s help and others’ help. When God or others (or God through others, as is often the case) begins to show us such mistaken beliefs and misguided commitments it is natural for us to become defensive. It’s natural, but it’s not helpful. We must trust God to reveal his truth to us. Will you ask God to reveal the truth to you and about you that you need to know to live joyfully in his kingdom?

Let’s now return to the question I raised earlier, “What has to happen for a person to be born again and receive this different kind of life?” The answer is that God has to act. When Nicodemus asked, “How can this be?” Jesus’s answer was: “… the Son of Man must be lifted up, that everyone who believes in him may have eternal life” – the born again kind of life. Jesus was talking about his own death on the cross as the act of God that would make possible the different kind of life – the eternal kind of life – that people need to see and enter God’s kingdom.

But what must we do? The answer is simple: believe on God’s only begotten Son. Trust him. Entrust yourself to him. “To all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God” (John 1:12). When (v. 16) Jesus spoke of God giving his one and only Son, it’s undoubtedly the cross that he had in mind. It was preeminently there that the Son was given to us, and it is preeminently in our daily lives that we give ourselves back to him – that is, that we believe in him.

It’s God’s Spirit that gives a person this new life; that brings about the new birth. We cannot make the Spirit act any more than we can make the wind blow … but we can raise our sails. We cannot bring about our own new birth, but we can (by God’s grace) believe in his one and only Son.

So the question for the text is, “What has to happen for a person to be born again?” And the answer is: God had to give his Son and we have to believe in him. The question for our lives is, “Have we believed in him?” Not just believed things about him; not just believed that he did certain things; but believed in him – trusted him and entrusted ourselves to him.

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Asking Questions of John 3: Why Did Jesus Interrupt?

Posted on August 26, 2021 by salooper57

We are asking questions of John 3. Here is one: Why does Jesus abruptly change the subject and talk to Nicodemus about the necessity of being born again and about the kingdom of God?

So here’s the picture: Nicodemus is being all suave and sophisticated. It’s not an act; it’s just who the man has become over the years. “You know, some of us (down at the club or in the department) are pretty impressed with you, young man. We know you’re special – know that God sent you.” He probably would have gone on for a while, talking like that, trying to get to his real point, but Jesus cut him off faster than a Mercedes on an LA highway: “No one can see the kingdom of God unless he is born again” (John 3:3).

So why does Jesus change the subject and talk about the kingdom of God? I think people rarely ask this question, but they feel it; and then they assume an answer that is all wrong.

They feel the question, and if they had to frame the answer it would be something like this: Jesus interrupted Nicodemus and changed the subject because he had important information to share with him (and us) about how to get into heaven. Jesus wanted to cut to the chase and tell Nicodemus how to get into heaven. But read it again. Is there anything about getting into heaven in this passage? Is Jesus really talking about pulling up stakes and moving to the skies?

I don’t think so. We jump to that conclusion because we assume that entering the kingdom of God is synonymous with getting into heaven. But that is the wrong conclusion to draw. Elsewhere Jesus talks about the kingdom of God (it is his single favorite subject to talk about) and it is abundantly clear that he is not using the term as a synonym for heaven. He says in one place, “the kingdom of God has come upon you” (Matthew 12:28). Was he saying that the eternal dwelling place of the blessed had descended up those people? Not at all—not yet.

In other places Jesus talked about the kingdom of God being taken from people. He wasn’t talking about heaven. He told his disciples that some of them would see the kingdom of God come with power in their lifetimes. He wasn’t talking about heaven then, either. I don’t know if there is any place in the New Testament where the words “kingdom of God” are synonymous for heaven, including here.

Jesus is not telling Nick how to get to heaven when he dies, but how to enter God’s kingdom while he lives. Jesus is not giving Nick directions to a destination. He’s telling him what needs to happen for a human to participate in God’s rule and live under his care – that is, to enter God’s kingdom.

Does that make heaven as a destination unimportant? Of course not. Just because Jesus wasn’t talking about our destination on this occasion doesn’t mean he never talked about it (he did), or that our destination isn’t important, (it is). But we cannot hijack a passage to make it serve our own theological interests. If we do, we’ll make Jesus say something that he wasn’t really saying, and we’ll miss something that he wanted people to know.

Jesus was always announcing this good news: God’s kingdom – his rule and protection – is available to people now. It is delightfully possible to enter God’s kingdom today, and live in it with rich confidence and joy. But to do so, we must be born again.

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The Original “Nick at Night”: Asking Questions of John 3

Posted on August 25, 2021 by salooper57

In John 3, a man named Nicodemus comes to see Jesus. Nicodemus is a mid-level celebrity in ancient Israel, a respected scholar and prominent national leader. As far as we can tell, he’s a stand-up kind of guy. He’s got money. He’s got influence. He’s got brains. He’s a guy who’s got it altogether. So why is he coming to see Jesus? That’s our first question for the text: Why did Nicodemus go to see Jesus?

And doesn’t the question reveal something about how we think? We know that the guy who’s falling apart needs Jesus, but we’re not so sure about the guy who’s got it all together. The alcoholic needs Jesus, as does the cancer patient and the abuse victim, but what about the successful business owner? What about the movie star and the big league politician? Do they need Jesus?

Now let me ask a question of us: Do we need Jesus? Do you need Jesus, or can you get by without him? When life is going smoothly, do you go to Jesus? If not, what do you really believe about yourself and about him?

Nicodemus was smart: smart enough to know that Jesus was special; that he could learn something from Jesus; that he needed something from him.

So let me ask a second question of the text. Why did Nicodemus come to Jesus at night? And there’s a follow-up question: Why did John, who related this story, want us to know that Nicodemus came at night (and then tell us again, and yet again)?

So why did Nicodemus come at night? (He was the original Nick at Night.) The answer is: we don’t know. The answer might even be, he didn’t know. Perhaps he was too busy during the day. Perhaps Jesus was too busy during the day. Perhaps Nick told himself Jesus was too busy during the day but the real reason was something different: he didn’t want to be seen calling on the controversial young rabbi.

We really don’t know why he went to see Jesus at night, and that brings us to that follow-up question: Why did John tell us that he came at night? Surely he could have left that part out without diminishing the point of the story.

I can think of three reasons why John might have included the information that Nick came at night. First (and I’m going to impress you by my profound exegetical skills and interpretive insights with this one), John might have told us this because Nick really did come at night, and he wanted to tell the story as it actually happened. Now, while I think that is certainly true, I don’t think it’s the whole story, because John doesn’t mention it just once. Every time Nick comes into the story, John refers to the fact that he came at night. Obviously he thought the timing of his visit was important.

And so it might be that John wanted us to understand that Nick was either ashamed or afraid of being seen with Jesus. Jesus had just had a run-in with some powerful and prominent leaders in Jerusalem. Were it to get out that Nicodemus went to see Jesus after that, it might not have gone over well.

But I think there is another reason John keeps telling us that he came at night. John loves the imagery of light and darkness. In the Gospel alone – not counting the letters or The Revelation – John uses the words and images of darkness and light fifty times! When he tells us that Nicodemus came to Jesus at night, he wants us to know that Nicodemus – the scholar and prominent leader – was in the dark. He wasn’t seeing clearly, and he didn’t even know it. (Or perhaps he did. As I said, he was a smart guy.)

So that’s another question for the text. Now, here’s one for you: Are you in the dark about Jesus and about God and what God wants for you? And if you are, what should you do about it? Well, when you’re in the dark, the best thing to do is to move toward the light. Scientists tell us that if someone were to light a candle in absolute darkness, it would be possible to see the light of that candle with the naked eye from a distance of 43 miles. If you’re in the dark but you see a light – even a little light, even a distant light – move toward it.

In John 3, Nick said that he had seen signs – they had been a light to him – and had moved towards the light. If you’re in the darkness, even if you’re not sure about God and about Jesus, move in the direction of even the faintest light. There will surely be more to follow.

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How to Seek the Kingdom

Posted on August 22, 2021 by salooper57

  Why do people need to seek the kingdom of God? Shouldn’t it just be there, for everyone to see? But we are in occupied territory, under enemy control. If you lived in occupied France in 1942 and wanted to join the Resistance, you would’ve had to seek it. It is the same here. People who want to join the kingdom of God must seek it. People have the ability to ignore it, if they want to – for the time being. They can go about their daily lives, worrying about their daily troubles, and imagine that that’s all there is to it. God won’t force his kingdom down anyone’s throat. Anyone who chooses to be part of the kingdom has to seek it.

              But how do you do that? How do you seek his kingdom? Let me offer some suggestions. First, volunteer for duty. Tell God that you want a kingdom assignment. Then do what he gives you to do. But keep in mind that God operates on the principle: “He who is faithful in little will be faithful in much.” So if God gives you something little to do – visit a sick church member, talk to a relative about Jesus, or drive someone to a doctor’s appointment; whatever it is – do it. If you won’t obey in a small thing, you won’t be given more to do.

              Along with that first is a second, corresponding, principle: “To him who has, more will be given.” When I was still a fairly new Christian, I asked the pastor of our church if there was something I could do to help. He suggested I paint the trim around the church education building. It needed extensive scraping and caulking before it could be painted. So I went down to the church, day after day, to work, all by myself. It was a pretty thankless job, but I had volunteered for duty and this was my first assignment.

              Perhaps I’m in my fortieth year of pastoral ministry because I said yes to that job. Who knows? I just know that kingdom assignments are not always exciting or esteemed. But the one who is faithful in little will be give more to do.

              How can you seek the kingdom? First, try volunteering for an assignment, and when God gives you one, do what you’ve been given to do. Second, hang around people who are known to be activists in the kingdom, and learn from them. Imitate them. Do what they do. Join them when they gather. When the church comes together, it is a kingdom gathering – a meeting of the Resistance – in the name of the Prince of Glory.

              Third, be on the lookout for fresh recruits. Tell your friends and family how good it is to be in God’s kingdom, with Jesus as your leader. Invite them to join up.

              But most importantly, put your confidence in Jesus Christ, the Captain of our Salvation and the Leader of God’s Kingdom. He is the way into the kingdom. No one else has the authority to admit you. Trust him. Listen to what he says – the Gospels are the easiest place to do that – and learn from him.

              To seek God’s kingdom is to seek his rule, first over your own life, then over the sphere of your influence. To be in his kingdom is to be his person, under his orders, representing his name.

              But Jesus also tells us to seek his righteousness. So we seek his kingdom – his rule over us – and his righteousness – his character in us. And the two go together. Those who seek his kingdom are transformed in their hearts and minds, and those who are transformed in their hearts and minds see with increasing clarity how to live and serve in the kingdom of God.

              It is important to note that we are to seek his kingdom and righteousness first, not second. “First” can refer either to first in sequence or first in precedence; first in time or first in priority. And the truth is, if we don’t give priority to seeking his kingdom, we’ll never find it. “Seek second the kingdom and his righteousness” and you’ll be wasting your time. But that’s the way God intended it. The half-hearted, the religious dabbler, the spiritual dilettante never see the kingdom. “The kingdom of heaven,” Jesus once said, “is like a treasure hidden in a field.” Any number of people can pass right by it and never know it’s there. It is the one who hungers and thirsts for righteousness that is filled, not the one who nibbles at it. It is “he who seeks [who] finds,” not he who daydreams. The promise is: “You will seek for me and you will find me when you seek for me with all your heart” (Jeremiah 29:13). If you’re going to be a kingdom person, it’s going to take all of you.

              But is entering the kingdom worth it? I think of a line by Bernard of Clairvaux: “To those who fall, how kind thou art; how good to those who seek. But what of those who find? Ah, this, nor tongue nor pen can show.” You were made for the kingdom. Life will never work right outside the kingdom. You will never be your true self anywhere else. Is it worth it?  I know the answer to that question: Yes, and a thousand times over. But I can’t answer that question for you. You will have to answer it for yourself.

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Is Marriage on the Way Out?

Posted on August 21, 2021 by salooper57
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My son the youth pastor asked me this week if I thought that marriage was on the way out. He wondered, he said, because cohabitation is now widely accepted and many people who do get married don’t stay married for very long. With that being the case, will people continue to marry?

He noted that in recent years, the people most zealous for marriage were those advocating for state and federal laws banning same-sex marriage to be overturned. Now that their cause has succeeded, they too have grown silent about marriage.

Is marriage on the way out? It is a good question and I do not know the answer. After a history of thousands of years, it seems like marriage should have some staying power, but who knows? Coinage, banks, and hand-written letters have been around for a long time too, but some experts are predicting their demise over the course of this century.

I hope marriage does not go away. Marriage, unlike coinage, banks, and hand-written letters, was directly God’s idea. According to Genesis 2, God brought woman and man together. The inspired storyteller puts it this way: “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”

Marriage was God’s idea. The only thing in pre-rebellion Eden that was not good was for the human to be alone, and marriage was part of God’s plan for humanity’s good. The dissolution of marriage in the current environment does not bode well for humanity.

Loneliness is an enormous problem in contemporary society. In 2020, Japan appointed a “Loneliness Minister.” A recent U.S. Surgeon General has described loneliness in America as a “health care crisis.” The internet market research firm YouGov reports a surge of feelings of loneliness among millennials. They state that “the social media generation is the one that feels the most alone.” 

Marriage, when “entered into … reverently, deliberately, and in accordance with the purposes for which it was instituted by God,” as The Book of Common Prayer puts it, is a counter to this crisis. It might be argued that a bad marriage can increase loneliness, and no one would disagree. But good marriages, which remain a possibility for most people, provide a counter to loneliness.

Marriage also provides a stable foundation upon which to raise a family. For children to grow up secure and confident, it is important that they have parents who are in a secure relationship. According to Scott Stanley of the University of Denver, research shows that only one in three children born to cohabiting parents remains in a stable family until age 12, compared to three out of four children of married parents

There is a widespread belief – which statistics clearly refute – that cohabitation serves as preparation for life-long love. It is rather marriage, “entered into … reverently, deliberately, and in accordance with the purposes for which it was instituted by God,” that teaches people how to love.

Marriage helps to foster happiness – married people report greater happiness than cohabiting couples – but it also supports holiness. In marriage, people practice submitting to one another. They learn to trust. They make sacrifices. These are invaluable exercises for the spiritual life. No wonder some Christian traditions regard marriage as a sacrament. It is a means by which God’s grace is experienced in life.

When marriage works as God intended, people learn to be patient and kind. They discover how to overcome obstacles like envy, anger, pride, rudeness, and self-centeredness. They learn to give up their grievance list. Falling in love may be easy (per Buddy Holly) but living in love requires training. Marriage is not the only training ground where this can be learned, but it is a premier one.

It is hard to think of marriage as a training ground because our society sees it as an end in itself. Such a view of marriage leads to the naïve expectation that getting married will bring ultimate fulfillment. It does not. Yet, marriage can bring some people closer to that fulfilment, which is one of “the purposes for which it was instituted by God.”

(First published by Gannett.)

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You Can Take “It” With You

Posted on August 19, 2021 by salooper57

I have often heard people say, usually in an appeal to evangelize, “The only thing you can take with you to heaven is another soul.” But that is not quite true. You can take a bigger soul with you – your soul, enlarged, empowered, and transformed. In the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus three times repeats the words, “Your Father …will reward you.” What kind of reward did he have in mind? Are heaven’s rewards like the bonus a top-tier CEO receives – but instead of a house in Malibu it’s a mansion in glory; instead of stock options it is a crown of gold? I don’t think so. The chief reward God gives, I think, happens within your soul. You are transformed into a certain kind of person – one whose earthly life is a joy and a blessing and whose heavenly future will bear a weight of glory that is unimaginable now. You are your reward – a reward that God loves to give: you, the real you, full of his life, glorified and glorious, transformed and beautiful.

You don’t have to play the game everyone else is playing, don’t have to scratch and claw your way to success in the world’s eyes. Because your heavenly Father is looking out for you, you can dare to invest in heaven. That’s why Jesus says, “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal.” If what happens on the game board of earth is all there is, then Jesus’s teaching here is just spiritual hot air and you better get what you can, while you can. But as for me, I’ll listen to Jesus. He’s the smartest person who ever lived. He knows how to live peacefully, joyfully, and purposefully. He knows from personal experience that what happens on earth is not all there is.

He tells us not to amass earthly treasures. In the context of the Sermon on the Mount, one of those treasures is the approval of others, which is not a lasting treasure. Another such treasure, Jesus makes clear, is money and the things it can buy. Please understand that Jesus is explaining these things to us for our own good, because he knows how life works. It’s not that he doesn’t want us to be admired or have nice things; it’s that he doesn’t want us to break our hearts – or, worse, turn them to stone and render them unbreakable – while we spend our lives seeking things that are incapable of satisfying us.

You see, where your treasure is, that’s where your heart will be. It’s a spiritual law: your heart follows your treasure. Where your thought, time and resources – that is, your treasure – go is where your heart will be. Put your treasure into clothes and that’s where your heart will go. And guess what? When your clothes get old and tattered, your heart will get old and tattered right along with them. Where your treasure is, that’s where your heart will be. Put your treasure in cars that rust, and your heart will rust too. It will get brittle and ugly and flake away until there nothing worth saving. Jesus didn’t tell us this to hurt us but to protect us. People all around us are losing heart – they’re being destroyed from the inside out. The word translated destroy is literally, “cause to disappear.” That is a tragic thing when it happens to people’s treasures – their bank accounts and their 501-ks – but it’s far worse when it happens to their hearts.

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You Can’t Measure Success While the Game Is Still Being Played

Posted on August 17, 2021 by salooper57

We play a game at our house called Ticket To Ride. The game is played on a board where railroad routes are outlined to cities all over the country. Each player draws three route cards worth varying numbers of points, depending on the length of the route, but only that player knows which cards he has drawn or how many points they’re worth. He must then fill in the line between the cities on his routes. He can draw more route cards whenever he wants, but if he doesn’t complete a route, the points allotted to it will be deducted from his total at the end of the game.

Beside the points awarded or deducted at the end, players get to move forward spaces on the board as they complete segments of their routes. Complete three segments of a route, and move ahead four spaces, which equals four points. Complete four segments, move ahead seven spaces. A five-segment completion, ten spaces. (You get the idea).

As the game goes on, one player will move ahead of another, then be supplanted by a third. There are a total of a hundred spaces on the board, and by the end of play one of us will only have moved forty or fifty spaces while another will have moved 85 or so. But where one is at the end of play does not determine the winner, because it’s not just the points on the board that are counted, but the points added or deducted from the route cards as well. The person who is in last place on the board may even turn out to be the winner because he has secretly completed the most routes.

In life, people measure their success by how they compare to others playing the game. He buys a new car and moves up three spaces. She gets a new job and moves four. They get married and move ahead fifteen spaces, buy a house and move another ten. People move ahead or fall behind throughout life, and then a person dies and the game ends.

But even in life it is impossible to measure success while the game is still in play. After the last card is played and the final move made, there remains treasure in heaven to be counted. Like in Ticket to Ride, if you focus solely on what you’ve attained in comparison to others, you are going to lose. You have to be concerned about tallying the rewards at the end.

With that in mind, consider these words of Jesus:

“Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

The eye is the lamp of the body. If your eyes are good, your whole body will be full of light. But if your eyes are bad, your whole body will be full of darkness. If then the light within you is darkness, how great is that darkness!

No one can serve two masters. Either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and Money.

Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more important than food, and the body more important than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they? Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?

And why do you worry about clothes? See how the lilies of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith? So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.” (Matthew 6:19-34)

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